The relationship syndrome

Just sometime this year, that nasty pandemic hit the world. the symptoms were evident: fever, temperature, sore throat, cough and then the big scare was death! You guess it, Swine Flu!

And now I see symptoms for another budding issue: every where people are in two's, holding hands and all that: suddenly it's a world filled with mass dating!!

Ok, the scare about this is that children from about age 10 have caught this syndrome too!!
I'm pretty sure they don't even know what a relationship is.

So I ask you all, in your various individual opinions,

• what is the minimum age limit for one to go into a relationship?



• what should be involved in a relationship?



• Does a relationship need to have a purpose before it is started? e.g marriage



• how do you decide who is right for you and who is isn't?



• how does one tackle the issue of : guy likes girl but girl wants friendship and vice versa



• Is 'single-ness' going out of fashion?

Your opinions, comments and ideas are all valued!! would love to hear from you all..

© The poets voice~~~ November 2009, All rights reserved.

Blocks and patterns

We adopt a lot of patterns as we go on in Life. Patterns make life predictable and predictability means we are not out of our comfort zones.

This could be good but it invariably makes life Boring!

The reason being hat when we are in our comfort zones,we feel everything is OK. We know what is going to happen and nothing is going to surprise us. In a sense, we are prepared.

Why take the excitement out of life?

Is it worth trading predictions for the uncertainty that accompanies a risk?

A pattern is good because that gives your life a structure on a daily basis but should we be run by this pattern or should there be some flexibility to adapt this pattern to change?

How is life for you? Is it a block; constantly you're running from one end to the other?

or is it a bit of a nebulous shape?

*some psychology to think about*

Have a swell weekend guys! lots of love.xx

© The poets voice~~~ October 2009, All rights reserved.

New medic on the block!

Please pardon me for my very long absence from blogsville.....I have started university now and It's a new exciting experience for me, especially as I am studying medicine!!

My freshers week has been fun; been networking and I have met a lot of people - some I know their names and others I don't (but I'm getting there)..

It's a new City but I already know my way around pretty much. I thank God that I settled in really quickly.

Looking back on the journey of the last two years...it's been long and tough but I made it!
I've made some great friends already and I'll see where life takes me from here..


NB: A thing is only known as 'impossible' until someone does it! You can be that person..



© The poets voice~~~ September 2009, All rights reserved.

On this day....

It's my birthday today!!

It's been an interesting journey so far...I thank God above all, for everything...my family, friends and LIFE!

I wrote a poem to mark this special day,please check it out here: http://www.poemspeaks.blogspot.com/

© The poets voice~~~ September 2009, All rights reserved.